The Innocent Thai Woman Who Married The Devil Of Dubai.
Can anybody in their best mind consider why a 25 years of age, 40 kgs, spiritually simple Thai lady (left) would marry this hideous, unsightly, fat, puffed up, hellish looking, 108kgs overweight, 40 years of age tattooed freak?
In some cases even when I take a look at this picture, I can not understand why. Just due to the fact that the woman on the right is Nitnipa Nakoon wed the man on the right, Loy Machedo– that’s me.
There are minutes I ask myself and even my spouse– seriously, why did you marry me? And all I get is a giggle and a hug.
Well, let me fill you in with a couple of information that make this mix highly unlikely.
About my wife:
She is a simple, hard-working, generous, flexible, loving, caring, spiritual woman who never had a boy-friend and wasn’t thinking about men. She never ever touched alcohol, cigarette or drugs. And she never went to any bars, clubs or celebrations. She simply thought in helping her mother and father in the rice fields. She is young, she is lovely and she is complete of life.
About me:
Foul-mouthed, vulgar, arrogant, self-centered, self-centered, self-promoting, boastful and an Atheist. Someone who had actually cheated on all 3 of his partners, had over 450 sexual affairs, who tattooed himself from head-to-toe, disliked being around with individuals, broke off with his household and relatives, was really questionable, loud and singing. And never thought in doing anything for totally free. And added to this– I was over-weight, awful and not really good to be around with.
So why on the planet did my other half even approve of me? To ensure, she would inform me the fact which I would inform the world about it- particularly since I would continuously get concerns– I even developed a youtube video and posted our discussion LIVE
In reality here are couple of shocking facts that maybe no one understands:
My wifey’s genuine name is Nitnipa Nakoon which means “Beauty Of Light”. But in English, everyone calls her “Annie”
We satisfied on the Thai dating website. Highlight– till then practically every other site had offer me no actions to my profile.
Shaadi which is an Indian matrimonial site had declined my profile picture mentioning I wasn’t permitted to submit celebrity photos claiming that it was my own
Shaadi which is an Indian profile and me being Indian myself– Well, I got zero matches and absolutely no reactions while on the Thai dating thai girl (Thairomances.com) site, I got over 5,000 reactions
I would send over 100 emails a day without seeing whom I was sending it to as I seriously didn’t want to read what anybody needed to state about them. After all, I understood whatever people composed was their own ‘goody-two-shoes’ evaluation of themselves and none of it was a true reflection of their character. And yes– similar to the format I follow on e-mails– I copy/pasted the exact same template to everybody
Out of the 5,000 reactions I got, I sent all of them a list of Questions, Terms & & Conditions of what I desired, what I was looking for and who I was. And because I also made it clear that
– I wasn’t abundant
– I wasn’t going to provide any cash for marriage (in the Thai tradition, the male needs to pay the lady’s household out of regard– a marital relationship dowry).
– I didn’t smoke, beverage, or socialize and desired a female who was the very same.
– The woman after marital relationship needed to work and I wasn’t offering her simple cash.
– I was the boss of your house and the lady had to follow my rules.
( No one liked my rules I suppose as the 90% never ever responded back)
Out of the ones who accepted it, I would simply chat with them in a really normal manner and from all the rest– I lastly zeroed it down to 6 ladies.
I ended up picking one– but that female cheated me of 100,000 Thai Baht and ran therefore I was back to square one. Best part, we had literally revealed to the world world we were getting married and she even tattooed my name on her chest to prove it that she liked me. Even after that, she ran off– an act I might never make sense off.
Lastly, I managed to get one girl whom I understood was the best one for me. She was going to show up in a months time.
Nevertheless, 5 days before she was going to get here, I ran into this woman on my Facebook messenger. She had sent me a good friends demand, and despite the fact that I had actually accepted her demand, I never ever talked with her.
And in the strangest coincidences of them all– instead of meeting the girl whom I was expected to get married– I ended up conference Nitnipa and getting married to her. Strange right?
If she wanted to marry me or not, by the way– the biggest surprise– I saw her on electronic camera and Dating Thai Girl in 3 seconds I proposed to her. She not just got a shock of her life– she ended up saying yes. And within 3 days of conference each other face-to-face for the very first time– we got married.
Now when I asked my wifey, Nitnipa why did she get married to me or why did she say yes to me, well these were her reasons:
I was the first man in her life who informed her “You appear like Mickey Mouse” while talking about her ears.
I was the 1st person when she did ask me what did I like about her– I told her “I do not understand anything about you, how can I like you?”
I was the 1st person who didn’t give her a single compliment. In fact, I never ever complimented her at all.
I was the first guy who didn’t smile at her
I was the 1st guy who kept doing work while placing on the video camera (I was hectic blogging)
I was the first man whom she bumped into that didn’t smoke, didn’t consume, didn’t go to celebrations and didn’t like socializing
I was the first guy who had tattoos. Highlight she disliked tattoos of any kind.
I was the first person whom her household completely turned down and stated no to.
I was the first man who told her point blank all his drawbacks including the reality that I had actually slept with whores, I had lots of ladies in my life and that I was a playboy
I was the 1st guy who informed her that he wouldn’t pay any cash for dowry.
So in every shape, way and kind, I was the total opposite to whatever she had imagined. However, well get got wed.
But if you believed the story ended there– well you are mistaken once again. AFTER we got wed, apparently everybody in the village informed her mother and daddy that:
I was an unsafe Mafia member
I was understood to beat individuals, females and kids
I obviously kidnapped women and sold them into prostitution
I was harmful and violent
I had drugs and unlawful substances in your home.
It was so bad, that they literally declined to send her with me and for us to go back house. So, what was the option?
The Senior citizen Sister & & her partner accompanied her with me to my home– simply to be sure that she would be safe with me.
Well they left once they inspected my house and understood there was absolutely nothing to stress about. However not without developing a group on LINE (app that many Thai people utilize) where they would continuously send her messages to understand if I was good to her or not. Seems that somebody as soon as again let the household understand that I was ‘placing on’ an act of being good (she told me about this group man days later on).
Today it has been 7 months given that our marriage. My wifey is quite alive. Best part– she is also pregnant with our 1st baby. So very few horror stories there. Apart from my continuous fixation to my work and my state of mind swings where I do not like any noise when I do my work– there are no other scary stories to share.
The only other amazing thing for the both of us is that– well tomorrow– 16th January 2018 is her birthday. And 13 days later on is mine.
Considered that I do not believe in all this Birthday BS, I have hardly ever if ever commemorated my birthday. But provided that she is a girl still in her 20’s I may believe of some simple yet private moments to make it and keep it unique. Nevertheless, it will remain individual and personal.
However when I look back at our minutes together, specifically how we fulfilled up, I have absolutely nothing however surprise and wonder at how she was able to check out all my ink, all the reports about me and all the negativeness even I informed her about me and still accept me.
In truth, even today when I ask her “Why did you say yes to wed me?” she very sweetly responds in her broken English “I see your eyes. You have great heart. You good man.”
Do not know much about that part. But all I do know is that I am certainly very fortunate to have a lady who genuinely likes me and who by any requirements of the word ‘ideal’ is really my ideal fit and my perfect partner.
So for whatever it deserves, I am just fortunate to have found Real Love. And yes, celebrate the first ever birthday of my wifey– Nitnipa Nakoon with me.
Happy Birthday dear Wifey from your alarmingly devilish spouse …